Why do you need verification info?

If we’ve never met before, a little bit of information about who you are or your experience level will go a long way to help me arrive at our first meeting optimally at ease and comfortable. Just like this website helps you see who I am, I take comfort knowing a bit about you prior to our first date. At this phase of our journey together, I need that information to reflect who you truly are… once we’re past that, however, you can be whomever you wish with me, that’s part of what I want for you.

Will my information be shared?

You have my word that information shared between us will remain just that: only between us. This remains true regardless of whether or not we wind up able to connect. I do not store records, emails, or contact information. All verification information is deleted after verification is complete.

Can I share more than is required?

In addition to the verification info prompted on my contact form, I will warmly receive:

• your Instagram or Twitter handle (I will never comment of follow)

• a brief description of what’s brought you to me.

• any information you’d like me to have in advance (think: health issues (mental or physical), topics you’d like to avoid, allergies… you know, the important things!

• a fun fact or two!

Please be mindful that, while I won’t reply to emails that are too skimpy, your initial message to me does not need be a long winded essay.

But I’m not comfy sharing my info, do I have to?

I’m sure you are a safe & safe individual, and I know that sending your personal information can feel nerve wrecking. The million dollar question is: what am I going to do with it? Well… nothing, really. Other than click on the links and photo you send me to see if everything lines up, and that you don’t have a history of misbehaving with companions. After our first meeting, I won’t need that information anymore, so it will be securely and permanently deleted. I only reply to inquiries that include verification information.