Why do you need verification info?

Just like this website helps you see who I am, I take comfort knowing a bit about you prior to our first date. If we’ve never met before, a little bit of information about who you are goes a long way to helping me arrive at our first meeting optimally at ease, which allows me to be my best self.

At this phase of our journey together, I need that information to reflect who you truly are… once we’re past that, however, you can be whomever you wish with me, that’s part of what I want for you.

Will my information be shared?

You have my word that information you share will remain absolutely private. This remains true regardless of whether or not we connect, and will never change. I do not store records, emails, or contact information. All verification information is deleted upon request.

Can I share more than is required?

In addition to the verification info prompted on my contact form, I will warmly receive:

• a brief description of what’s brought you to me

• any information you’d like me to have in advance. Think: health issues (mental or physical), topics you’d like to avoid, allergies… you know, the important things!

• a fun tidbit about yourself

Please be mindful that, while I won’t reply to emails that are too skimpy, your initial message to me should not read like a long winded essay.

But I’m not comfy sharing my info, do I have to?

Short answer: if you’d like to see me, then yes. If you’re not comfy doing so, then we can’t meet and I wish you the very best and have no hard feelings about it! I’m sure you are a safe & safe individual, and I know that sending your personal information can feel nerve wrecking.

The million dollar question is: what am I going to do with it? Well… nothing, really. Other than see if everything lines up, and that you don’t have a history of misbehaving with companions.